Being in the lifestyle as a single male can be tough, but it doesn't have to be. Learning simple etiquette can mean the difference of being invited back! First and foremost, no means no. Just because a single female or couple is in the lifestyle, it doesn’t mean they want to be harassed or touched without permission. Always ask first!
Keep communication open. Set boundaries and respect them as a couple. If one half of the couple wants to leave or go back to your room, then do so. It can avoid an embarrassing public argument or a build up of resentment. No means no in any situation.
PUBLIC MEET & GREETS:
Usually in a public space. No nudity or sexual contact in accordance with most State Liquor Laws.
PRIVATE SWINGER PARTIES:
Usually a more relaxed environment. If the door is open it means you are welcome to come in and watch. Ask permission to join or wait to be asked into the group play.
ABS & ADULT THEATERS:
Keep alcohol to a minimum, stay away from drugs. The best sex parties are the ones that you can remember the next morning.